Hi mommies
As much as I want to pour down my thoughts, my experiences, and all that we go through and share it. I want to stop and start with a heads up to all the new parents and newly Weds and new moms or Peggy ladies.
Parenthood is something we choose, some of us are forced to subconsciously and consciously and we don't get to know what we are getting into..So if you find yourself in this condition...Please read this and be WARE of these slyly Monsters around you...
So they would say you are getting old :
"Uff 30 ki hogayi ho..... bhuddi hojaogee..bhaeee buhat mushkil hota hai---jaldi karlo werna kuch ke tu Aulaaaad hee nahi hoti....'
And others will say
"Bas ab tu mein intizaar mein hon kab meri poti potta ayein aur mein unke saath khiloon ?"
And some would express their want to stitch clothes for their grandsons and grand daughters and make you realize how important it is to conceive.
Although for their own daughters , the voice notes will be a little different .Something like
" Aray nahi abhi tu meri bachi ki shaadi howi hai, abhi tu ghoomeingay , abhi settle horahi hai , abhi travel karnay jana hai ya abhi tu unki nand ki shaadi hai matlab everything they can conveniently say and get away with it will be shoved on your face and you will have to live with it."
Matlab behen aap akelii nahi hein yeh sab ke sath huwa hai trust me each one of us who are married felt it million times how these monster-in laws showed us diffidently, treated us differently or acted super smart when its about their own daughters.
The worst part of the story is your husband who is your husband first now and a brother and son later would ALWAYS PUT CLARITY ON HS FAMILY TO BE TREATED AS MIGHTY RULERS...GREAT GODS
Well Good Lord!
These bechari mayyein on one-side and the terrible mother-in-laws on the other are a disguise.
Ab obviously bechara beta doesn't know that his beloved mother is a very dark person and in his trials to understand whose right and whose wrong.
You become PREGNANT!!!!
WELL WELL WELL LADIES IF YOU ALL WANTED TO STUDY MORE AND GO HIGHER IN YOU CAREER OR HAD OTHER ASPIRATIONS WHICH YOU COULDN'T ACHIEVE DUE TO THE SURROUNDING PRESSURE or DUE TO THE MONSTER-IN LAW AT YOUR HOUSE.
I WOULD LIKE TO RAISE HANDS WITH YOU AND CURSE ALL THOSE WHO DID THAT TO YOU AND JUST SAY ONE THING.
Remember What goes around comes around ...
so trust ME God is watching...
Smile EVERYONE...
THE WAR IS STILL ON...
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